12. From fear of loneliness to helpful solitude, or Why we need to learn to be alone

We often fear loneliness, desperately trying to avoid it like the plague. But here's the twist: loneliness isn’t just something to run from — it’s a key player in our journey toward self-understanding.

In this episode of the podcast, we’ll discuss why solitude is essential for navigating the middle of life, how it helps shift our focus from the Ego–World axis to the Ego–Self axis, and, of course, the inevitable hurdles that come with it. Drawing on the wisdom of James Hollis and Irvin Yalom, we also take a slight detour into Star Wars territory.

Tune in to find out how solitude can be your best ally in this whole self-discovery thing.

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Why are we so drawn to mythological stories in movies and books? Can we truly find meaning in myths — and is that meaning even there? Where should we search for answers about life, the universe, and everything in between? And how do we navigate personal crises — and come out transformed? In this podcast, we explore these big questions and more at the crossroads of psychology, philosophy, cultural studies, and science. Join us as we dive into timeless stories and enduring truths to uncover insights for today’s world.